I am a mother of two boys (13 and 10) Recently married, but together for 3 years, my husband doesn't seem to see what his daughter is doing by manipulating him and his ex wife. He can't stand his ex, of course so anything his daughter says negative about her mom, he's ok with. I'm not ok with that. I have 2 boys who also have a father in their life and would not want them to speak or treat me the way she does her mother while with us. The thing about it is that I know she is doing the same thing to him/us when she is at her biomom's house.