When I first married my husband in 2004, he told me that BM did not want anything do with SSs, now 17, 18 & 22. I knew that being a SM was not an easy task but I always like a good challenge. I have a BD22. The boys were 4, 5 and 9, adorable and cute as button. We became a blended family and all was okay, normal issues, but nothing crazy. Until 2 years after we got married, BM who left the boys to go hoeing around town, when the youngest was 6 months old, probably still had breast milk oozing out, she decides that she wants to be in their life, at the time she was living her POS man in his mama's house. Her BF is one of the dudes that she cheated on my DH, she cheated on his several times but got caught 5 times, he kept giving her chances to keep the family together over and over. Fast forward, he finally got sick and tired, filed for divorce in 2001 where the judge granted him with primary custody of the boys, he always had the kids since day one. The judge also order her sorry ass to pay CS, $300, this ins 2001, she was unemployed at the time and the judge still ordered her to pay $300. Of course she never paid a dime. When we got married I told him that she had to contribute something to help with the boys, my husband was hesitant at the time but I told him, it's not fair, my Baby daddy pays $800 CS for my BD, she should at least pay a little something. When I first met her, I thought she was going to ask me questions about who the heck I was, I mean I'm raising her boys, her only concern was "why did she have to pay CS now?" I calmly responded that it wouldn't be fair if she didn't contribute $$ for her son's while everyone else was doing their part, this was the beginning of the drama with this crazy woman.............. More to come.