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Newest BM's Drama

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Okay so the newest BM drama has been that she wanted us to give up Father's Day weekend and she would have let us keep SS7 from this past Friday until July 15th. We had plans for for Father's Day weekend and it was not an option. So, now this week we picked him up yesterday and he goes back to his grandma's tomorrow. Then we pick him up Tuesday night for our holiday and take him back Thursday. To turn around next Sunday and pick him up for our week. Which is a lot of running, but it is what is in the court order. So, it's what we prepare ourselves to do.

Kids Will Be Kids

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Today has been a little harder day to handle. It seems as though SS7 has had a very hard day of not listening! He has had trouble all day with following any rules! It is getting frustrating! Seems like we are talking to the wall continuously. There are times I feel like he just doesn't care what we say, because we can tell him to do something or not to do something and he does what he wants anyway. It is so hard to keep our calm with him and keep explaining that he needs to follow rules.

A Little Victory

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Just an background on my situation. I have one SS7 and three biological children. My DH and I have been married for a little over five yrs. Every since my husband and I have been together. The BM has been nothing but a crazy psycho! In the beginning I tried to be nice and communicate, but she didn't and still does not know how to be a normal, rational adult. It is all about control for her. It has never been what is in the best interest of SS7. Our latest battle was that she refused to give us any information about SS7 medical information.

Father's Day

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Well after sending DH out of the house today for a day to himself. I spent the day with my all my children making Father's Day crafts/gifts. I'm glad I waited for my SS7 to be here with us. However, trying to rush around a do it all the day before was hard. Although, I guess it was partially my fault that I didn't start working on it two weeks ago when he was here last. Everything worked out and hopefully the rest of the week will go just as well.

New

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Hi everyone! I'm new here! I have 3 biological children and 1 SS. My DH and I have been married a little over 5 yrs now. When him and I were dating SS was only 18 months old. I started out trying to be very nice to his BM. However, I found out that no matter what I did she is going to be psycho forever! We have been through everything from her trying to accuse us of child abuse to try to get us not to be able to see him. Both times investigated and proven false. We have kept notes, recordings, taken pics to prove her craziness.