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Submitted by Robe8238 on Wed, 02/15/2023 - 7:32pm

I don't get it.  Has anyone had a life changing event then have people like on here that think I'm being selfish because I need my husband after a double masectomy with reconstruction,  2nd surgery coming up any day,  possible chemo and a 3rd surgery. I have a 36 yo SD that is only wanting to see her Daddy with no regard as to what we are BOTH going through. We spent time at her house in late October,  but she acts as if it's been years.

Grown SD, no compassion

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Submitted by Robe8238 on Thu, 02/09/2023 - 5:16am

I've made blogs on this before,  but started new today.  SD wanted to come visit with her family AND shedding dog for Christmas.  I was to have knee replacement on Jan 30 and have been in a lot of pain,  but couldn't discourage her from coming.  They come and act as if they are in a hotel & never lift a finger to help. (Previous post had details). She canceled the trip when she found out that I had to have a breast biopsy on 12/22. YAY

12/30/22: Diagnosed with breast cancer

1/6:  WENT TO SEE 1ST SURGEON

SD disrespect

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Submitted by Robe8238 on Fri, 01/06/2023 - 11:08pm

After going back & forth about grown SD & her family coming for Christmas,  she decided against it because i had a biopsy right b4 Christmas.  I bought all the gifts and we had them shipped to her and her family.  I got no thanks at all,  all went to DH.

 

Step daughter & family for Christmas

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Submitted by Robe8238 on Wed, 12/14/2022 - 5:59pm

Always stressful when 36yr old SD comes to visit,  usually just she and her son.  Her son is almost 12, and acts like a child meddling into everything.  I can ask him to stop doing something before he breaks what he's meddling worth and she quickly says that if he breaks it,  she'll replace it.  I've explained that isn't the solution that he needs to stop when asked to.