Long story short I am in a relationship that is no longer good for me and my 3 children. I was naive and ignorant and allowed myself to become financially dependent on this man. He works mon-sat and sometimes we have no idea what time he gets off of work. The point of that info is, I am responsible for his son (he has full custody so he lives with us) 24/7. I really need to get back to work so that I can stand on my own two feet and return back to single motherhood and focusing on my kids and myself.