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Electra Barbie wants DD to sleep over

and teach her to swim, whatever.

If she wasn't always trying to cause trouble at our house I would be fine with it.

Since DD comes home from there with a shitty attitude I don't want it to happen.

I suspect SD will PAS her out on me or attempt to. BM lives right around the corner so she's around too.

H is very offended that I don't want them around DD.

I sometimes wonder if he is trying to recreate the old family dynamic where he and D will make me the outsider and abuse me.

Thoughts? IMO neither BM or SD would be helpful to the sitch.

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Does your h pick fights when going to skidville?

Are they feeling resentful bc of your disengagement?
Are they feeling guilty bc skid was abusive to you since day one?
Are they hurt bc they are the only ones in your home that can stand them?

H knows damn good and well I will not be helping Sd move. He knows As far as I'm concerned Ed burnt the bridge last year when she was such a bixch about her wedding.

SD is short handed for moving. H is dragging my son and our dd with him.

After making a remark that son sounds "loaded".

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Wedding Photo?

Well the Christmas visit wasn't that unbearable I suppose.

This is curious to me though.

Lovely wedding photo was her gift to H and BIL.

The curious thing about it was-the groom was not in the picture.

Our youngest, BIL, bridezilla, dad and my boy. (I am not in the picture because I did not attend-see previous blog)

Is her husband just a convenient accessory?

I would have been offended if I was him.

She gathered us all together and Ken doll took a family photo of us all.

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H wanted to use my Facebook to look at SD Facebook. I told him no, but he is welcome to create his own account. I do not want to friend SD who has been planting little seeds of doubt and trying to split H and I up since day one.

A while back, there was a discussion about why my Facebook is so private.

I don't want anybody harassing me or looking me up.

I know Facebook would just be another weapon for relational aggression.

SD and BM do not need access to me on the net.

I value my privacy.

Not looking forward to Christmas

SD, who I haven't spoken to in six months will be visiting for a short period of time. Normally, I could just suck it up and deal but I'm still very angry about an ugly incident concerning her wedding.

Was invited to bridal shower and didn't want to go because it would just be another fun filled event of RA and shunning. But I can't tell her that-right?

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When Your Spouse Finally Wakes Up...

and realizes what BM and SD are really like as far as manipulation, money grubbing, shit disturbing, etc, do they ever take it out on you?

Am curious about this. Some things came to light after I disengaged. I think he is starting to see how things really are and that maybe I was correct all those years even though we never discuss it.

I am not seeing this as some kind of shred of hope-I know better than that. Just wondering if it was possible.

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A little late to the party....

SM for about 15 years. Disengaged now. Early years were hell. H still after all this time has not let go of BM. When skid lived with us, BM was allowed to come in the house anytime she wanted to pick up kids. When we got back from being married, this bitch was sitting on our bed with gifts. (That's how they do it-they shit all over you and wrap it up in a pretty package) She asked me, "So did you guys do the nasty?"She was even here painting skids bedroom(black-we wanted no part of it) while we were at work and I wound up feeding her one night.

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