Seem to think that his custody, visitation arrangement is the WORST of all time????? I spend countless hours per year trying to get him to realize that there are plenty of good men, good fathers who have it waaaaaaay worse than he does.

I am constantly reminding him what it means to get divorced and how he walked into it with eyes wide open. Why can't he just be thankful that BM pawns them off on us anytime she wants to go out and have a good time? That's a lot more than some dads get!