Next week makes 6 years that I have been with my fiance and I have known his kids just as long. Well now that the BM doesn't know how to grow up and let go I have to take a step back until she calms down. I am starting to feel left out because for one her fiance doesn't have to step back anywhere and he gets to enjoy the family life and the kids and I have to once again wait. It isn't like I am a new person in their lives so why do I have to. Unfortunately there isn't much I can do but to step back and let things pan out the way they are supposed to. Just hope it all gets better before next years wedding!