I have the skids and BS by myself all weekend, every weekend because Dh works. Their behavior is unbelievably frustrating and draining. So whenever Dh calls on his breaks he can hear it in my voice. I never complain about the skids, but if he asks hoe they are behaving I will tell him. He always just blows it off, never speaks to them, and belittles my frustration (which is why I stopped volunteering the info). Then inevitably when he calls me on the way home from work I get the "you hate my kids" crap, that I have no patience for them, they are just kids blah blah blah.

During the week Dh picks the kids (skids and BS) up from daycare. I call him when I get out of work to see how everyone day was (well, to be honest, I only care how Bs's day was.... But I ask about everyone). Atleast three out of the four days he gets the kids he is aggitated by the skids already, or having to yell at one of them while we are on the phone. He's only had them maybe 20 minutes at this point.

So yestrday I call and they are still in the car coming home from daycare cause they had to stop by the store on the way home. Dh is super aggitated, and barely able to even focus on our conversation because of the skids. He goes into this diatribe of what both SS had done since he picked them up and what SD has done. It was their usual behavior for me, the same shit he blows off when I tell him. Would I have been as mad as him? No. But it is absolutely rediculois how these kids act.

So I say, well, that's how they act for me all the time. You've only had them for 20 minutes, I have them for ten hours straight all weekend long. You can see why I am so aggrivated every day.

A moment of silence. Then he is instantly calmed down and begins talking like he was never upset at all. No aknowledgement of what I had just said, or the double standard he has for us in regards to the skids.

Yet come this weekend, he will show no understanding whats so ever when they act like little asses for me, yet he cant stand to deal with them either.