My skids BM does not pay child support. Everytime my DH files, she throws a fit like a 2 year old and gets the kids involved and makes them turn on him. So DH drops the support. For the past 2 years I have told him to take her since she is useless, a liar and does not lift a finger to do anything for these kids. DH always just says i'm tired of fighting and it's not worth it. How is it not worth it? I've got to give DH EW credit she took him for support and never backed down once! So why doesn't he have the balls to stand up to his EG and take her? So confusing...

Ok, so my ss13 and my sd10 decided that this morning was going to be the morning to gang up on my. Usually when they act up in the morning i ignore it cause the fights with them usually arent worth the time. So they both decided they were going to talk to me like crap, bang my dh and i things around, punch the walls and act like 2 year olds. I told them that i am done i do everything for everyone in the house and nobody does anything for me, that life isn't a fairytale filled with shopping and getting to do whatever u want all day everyday and welcome to the real world.

I hate when I try to explain to someone my situation and they say: "well you married him you knew what you were getting yourself into!" The F&*% I did! I had no idea what this marriage would bring. I was fine that my H has kids and that I would be a SM. I expect the i'm not listening to you b/c your not my mom bullshit, and expect to not be treated a little bit different being a SM.