My anxiety levels are through the roof today (monday) as I know tomorrow my mother in law comes round for an hour or so, she has done this for 14 years! Since splitting with father in law, she still sees SD, not regular... I dont think but certainly has phone contact (photos,messages,facebook) She has always had something to say about the 'perfect grandchild' (the sun truly shines outta SD ass in her eyes!) I sit dreading her name being mentioned as I know I wont be able to hold my tongue if she trys to interfere. We have fell out before over the same subject and I told her to get out MY house. My husband understood to a point but did persuade me to message her and try and ease the situation, which I did. Dont get me wrong, I DID NOT apologise, its was more of an 'I'm not apologising but for husbands sake heres an olive branch' things are just false now. Fake hellos, fake conversation, fake interest in what she has to say... it's the only way!

But for some reason I'm dreading tomorrow even more. Does she know about the card SD sent? 

Will she ask about it?

Will she question H on what hes gonna do?

He gets on really well with his mom, to a point he needs to get a back bone so I'm not sure how he will respond. 

So I will have a very restless sleep tonight while my anxiety has a party in my head.

Wish me luck x