I kind of feel sorry for DH that the wool has been pulled over his eyes for so long. I feel sorry that he chose to think that I was a bitch and picking on his son. I feel sorry that SS will probably not become a decent member of society when he gets older. It all could have been avoided if DH and BM actually parented. It could have been avoided if DH would have listened to me.

SS10 has a past with stealing amongst many other things. There were 2 incidents that money was taken from my purse which was in my bedroom. The first time $20 went missing. The second time $2 was missing. I couldn't prove the $20 but I busted SS in front of DH about the $2 and nothing was done because I didn't really have proof although SS half ass admitted it. DH chose to blame me for misplacing the $20 or blame the dog for eating $20. I know that wasn't the case. DH put $300 in my purse at 10pm at night and at 7am the next morning, $20 was missing. I think its safe to assume SS went in my room while I was in the shower that morning. Last night DH noticed he was missing $15 and guess where he found it...in SS's bookbag. He asked me what he should do about it. I told him I didn't know. DH seemed to be shocked about the whole thing. I however was not because SS steals stuff all of the time, his parents don't want to see it. DH did his yelling thing this morning and told SS he can't swim today at daycare. SS didn't seem to care until DH told him he couldn't go swimming. SS doesn't care about anything and shows no emotion, so it was nice to see something actually got to him.

Yesterday, I was cleaning the bathroom. SS has stopped taking a razor to the walls but now stabs the sink with something. DH talked to him about it and said SS said he was going to stop. I mean doesn't this kind of thing set of bells for everyone or is it just me?

Those were the 2 major incidents this week. I could go on and on about the other stuff too, I just can't believe DH didn't notice any of this shit for 4 years. I can't believe he chose to think I was lying about his son. WTF? I get so hurt and mad and furious and then I get so happy that Im not going to have such stress anymore. This morning I cried because I was awaken at 5:45am to DH screaming at SS. DH asked if I was ok and I told him no and that this kind of shit is the reason I have to go. I could handle a doozy every once in a while but SS pulls stuff like this almost daily. And he doesn't need therapy at the least? DH said he didn't want to rehash things this morning and at least I could walk away because SS isn't my problem. I can't believe he let his son drive me out.