Ok, so lately here things are just weird for me. Let me start by saying my mom hit menopause early/mid 40's.
I've been having weirder cycles/hot flashes on ocassion and irregular spotting between periods-a week before period -when pms sets in- i have night sweats also. Anyways, the obgyn nurse said it could be pre-menopause and that it can last for years-so anybody else in that boat or has been can help?

Another question-normally i'm all for being touchy feely-shoot bf and i grope at eachother all the time!!! BUT during PMS-in addition to crankiness from hell and normally a week of depression/bad mood, etc...I realize I just dont' like to be touched/groped. Leading up to it my sex drive is great but plummets for a few days/week before (pms week) picking up again about a day before my period.

We got in a mild argument yesterday and i guess he felt rejected/hurt-somehow my pms this week has been MILD compared to other months mood wise but I still feel edgy-don't liek to be touched much. I told him this later in text to not take it personal but I'm wondering if this is something other pms'ing ladies go through. Women that are normally very affectionate, active sex-lives, playful go to this 'don't touch me' week???