I'm back after a bit of a hiatus with a new name. It's safer this way. I am the one who left after my mother sought out BM on Facebook and divulged all of my secrets to her. Secrets as in telling BM everything I have ever said about her and her kids, and some that I didn't. I was then confronted by DH, who had been confronted by BM with all of this information, and...life has never been the same for me since. My hatred for BM grows because she continues to use my mother for information and vice versa. It's sickening for me. I've closed myself off from anyone and anything remotely associated with them. They can have each other.

Why would someone's own mother and confidant do this? Because I maintain a relationship with my former stepfather and his wife. My mother cheated on him and he finally left her. She expects that everytime she ends a marriage, that her kids follow suit and end their relationships with the men as well. It doesn't work that way. She's the one who has lost out forever. She will never have her daughter or grandson in her life. I hope everything she has done has been worth it to her.

So, I left here for a while and deleted my account so that nothing else about me could be seen, found or read. I have a new account now, and hopefully this can be a safe place for me to vent my daily pain and anger. It's mostly pain.