I was looking up court cases here in our state to try and help SO. I am trying to convince him to let the teenage SGirls stay with their mother AT LEAST 1 weekend a month. Not the soon to be 9yoStwins. Just the teenagers. We have them Fri-Mon EVERY week. THey cry and throw fits and lock themselves in bathrooms and tell him they hate him and "just stop fighting mom for custody". This goes on for HOURS. Every weekend. Mom has custody. They dont want to be here on his parenting time. I say then dont make them. He actually said "you are the one that says not to reward them for bad behavior" I said "yeah, I meant like dont take them to the amusement park after they call CPS and tell them lies" (he did this in June) He says if he lets them stay at moms on his parenting time then that is rewarding them by giving them what they want....
I suppose hes right, but I just want some flippin peace, ya know? And my thinking was if we give them a little more time with mom, and show we "get it" then maybe they will chill out when here.
Also, as we were dicussing this, he said, " well if I only have my kids every other weekend then I will just sell my house. I dont need a house if I only have them 4 or 5 days a month. Geeeeee, I wonder why these SKIDS are entitled and think and actually say, "Its our house we can do what we want in it" And hey SO THanks for not even considering me and my BD, At least I know where I rate in your life now :?