Well I have learned a lot on here as a new member. I am 45 and have a 27 year old stepdaughter. I am trying hard to disengage. For 24 years her father and I have been together. He and her mom divorced when she was 6 months old. In any event, without realizing it over the years, as a summer visitation child (lived all over being an army brat) she became like my own. Her mom in my opinion, made her become multi personality