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I hate these f*cking kids.

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Submitted by OfUnknownName on Thu, 03/22/2012 - 9:41pm

I hate these f*cking kids. SS13 and SS8 are the worst kids I have ever met. The are so lazy, they never clean up any mess they make and DH just runs behind them catering to every demand. They won't even close the car door after getting out.....I come outside to find the door sitting open on the car....I learned why today....DH opens the door for them like he is a limo driver, then walks away while they are still getting all the shit they carry with them out of the car....and then SS13 and SS8 just fucking walk away. I have such a hard time having BD2 around them because I am worried BD2 will end up acting like they do. She is is more mature, and behaved then they will ever be. The very sight of them makes me want to vomit, on them.

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Submitted by Anon2009 on Thu, 03/22/2012 - 10:45pm

Maybe you should channel that hate onto your DH. I think if you did, it would certainly put much more pressure on him to change his parenting techniques. They might walk away, but he lets them. I think it's fine for him to help them carry stuff in, provided they are carrying a good amount of their own stuff too.

The reality is that both you and these kids are powerless. The one with the power is DH, and he is not using it properly. These kids' behaviors won't change until HE, their dad, changes his parenting techniques, therefore forcing them to change too. What incentive would they have to change without Dad's changing his parenting techniques? None. I don't know of anyone who would willingly give up having someone else close the car door for them and catering to them.

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Submitted by newbie88 on Thu, 03/22/2012 - 11:05pm

I agree ^^^^^!

Your DH seriously needs to be the one that something is said to before anything will get done. Lay it all out for him around how you feel, don't hold anything back. He won't know unless you tell him. You may say he isn't like most men and he hears you even when you aren't speaking...but really lets face it he is a man so he has no idea whats wrong until you tell him whats wrong and even some times then he still won't know lol

Your Skids are more than capable of acting like NORMAL people and closing the doors behind themselves. There is no excuse for that at all! Even when I am carrying in all of my groceries and there isn't anybody home to help me, I will close the door with my @$$ if needed.

Your man should understand where you are coming from and talk to his children!

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Submitted by henrythedad on Fri, 03/23/2012 - 2:22am

Let's get real. Chances are Guilty Dad is not going to hear anything you say. So let the car door stay open, let the battery run down from the light being on all night and then let him deal with it. Once his "special little snowflakes" start actually inconveniencing him I predict he will get on them right quick. And as for why you didn't prevent the "catastrophe" from happening? "Gee, honey, I was inside. I had no idea the skids left the car door open. (insert sweet smile here)"