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Reflections on Stalky Stuff for the past several years

Nymh's picture

Sita Tara's recent blog reminds me of several "run ins" that I've apparently had with BM in public (and in private) that I never knew about until afterward. I guess I don't pay as much attention as [BM] does.

There was one time that I was driving BF's vehicle and she saw me getting out in a parking lot, and claims to have taken a picture out the side of her car. I wonder how she managed taking a picture out the window of her car, of something she had just noticed when driving past at 45 mph. That resulted in about a week's worth of emails about "that whore driving your car".

She also claims to have waited outside my old apartment and gotten pictures of me and BF entering and leaving multiple times. Though all of these pictures she claims to have, she can never produce when asked to...so I doubt they actually exist. This is the same woman who claims to have pictures of me living in an apartment she suspected me of living in by taking pictures through the cracks in the blinds (the apt. was on the second story and I, by the way, didn't live there).

Then there was the time that we got home from a shopping trip to Wal Mart in our town (about an hour away from BM's town) to an email about how BM and SS saw us "all over the store" and how much it upset SS to see us together like that. Umm, this kid spends every other weekend with us. I highly doubt that seeing us walking through a store together upset him that much. What I found funnier is that she saw us "all over the store" but we didn't even know she was there. Could that be because maybe she was behind us the whole time? Who knows.

One time when I went to pick up SS, BM asked me if it was me that she was behind the other day when driving through town. Uh, I don't know...I don't really pay attention to who is driving behind me at all times (though with our history, maybe I should). She started quoting everything about my car, the day and time, where it was, which direction we were going, and where I turned onto another street and was like, "was that you?" How the hell should I know? You know, I used to keep a lookout for her car because she stalked me for so long...but I realized that it kept me so high strung all the time and every time I saw a car that resembled hers I would start freaking out - when most of the time it wasn't her anyway. That's just a lot of stress that I don't need. Why she feels like she needs it, I don't know. But I'm over it.

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Nymh's picture

I have gotten a restraining order on her, actually. It just expired last month.

*~So sayeth Nymh~*

Sita Tara's picture

Guess I'm lucky. I doubt she will mention seeing me since she can no longer joke to SD that I am fat after my 14 pound loss (that she has apparently been busy "finding".

I possess super human powers. Not only does she claim that I have some sort of power "over" DH, but evidently, I have the power to make her disappear!

Too bad it's only from Walmart.

"Om Tare Tutare Ture Mama Ayurpunye Jnana Putin Kuru Svaha"
~Sita Tara Mantra

Nymh's picture

That's not even half of it. Those are just the instances that I didn't find out about until afterwards. I didn't include things that I knew about as they were happening which accounts for a lot more!

Looking back, I should have just gotten a RO as soon as it all started. But BF said that it would just make things worse on him and he wanted to try to be nice. Well, we all know how well that worked out. Little did we know that she would be getting two bogus orders of protection on him in the meantime. I think part of the reason that things got as bad as they did was because BF and I tried so hard to be nice and work things out for so long. If we had never put up with her crap from the beginning, I think things would not have gotten as bad as they have not only for us but also for BM.

*~So sayeth Nymh~*