The last overnight visit a couple of weeks ago was cancelled. Supposedly BM's plans fell through and SS said he didn't want to come see his Dad. Well, he didn't have a problem coming to see him on his normal visitation day or staying an extra two hours...but anyway. I am going to try to schedule a lot of time during the days for me to work on my house so that BF and SS can have some alone-time together. We'll see how BM takes this. Half the time I get "please stay away and let SS and his father have a day alone together" and the other half it's "I'm thankful that you're around because I know that SS is being cared for." She tells me to leave them alone but asks me things like how SS is doing and if he's had his medication. So I'd just like to see how she takes it when SS tells her I was actually gone for a big portion of the day.

I just hope she doesn't take it away again. We were so happy to have the chance to spend the night with SS last time. BF and I are beginning to think that she's just playing a cruel game, but we'll see on Friday if SS doesn't get dropped off as planned.

BF and BM are supposed to be going to court soon over the back child support issues. BF's attorney is also going to address the child support situation as a whole and try to sue for more custody and less CS payments at the same hearing. BM tried to tell BF that he was supposed to be in court a couple of Mondays ago as well, which turned out to be bogus. She also has tried to contact me to discuss a bogus court date on the 5th. I don't understand why she does this. Is she just trying to start an argument? Or trying to make us feel like she has power over us? Or make us run around trying to figure out if her lies are true? It's pretty stupid to me whatever it is.