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Submitted by nunya1983 on Mon, 07/20/2015 - 7:56am

OK so I know that BM stalks my Facebook amy chance she gets wit SD getting a Facebook in a few months, it will make it all the time.

My rules will be:

I will get a separate FB amount from dh, don't care what he says.

Dds and I will not friend SD.

Dds and I will block SD.

Dh will not pay any pictures that include dds on his Facebook.

All pictures of dds from before will be removed. Anyone who tagged pictures of dds will need to be told to not tag dh in the pictures.

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Submitted by nunya1983 on Mon, 07/20/2015 - 8:23am

But if BM used SD's account to log in, she will be able to see them as dh will want to send SD a friend request.

BM used a mutual friend's account to view our account before, since then I've defriended and blocked this mutual friend

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Submitted by nunya1983 on Mon, 07/20/2015 - 8:31am

I didn't realize that was possible. guess it goes to show how much I actually use it. I just have friends and family on our page, anyone I don't want seeing posts and what not are blocked.

I'll have to look into that

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Submitted by nunya1983 on Mon, 07/20/2015 - 8:27am

Oh I didn't know you could do that. For the record, it's not that o don't want SD to see the pictures/posts, it's that BM would likely log into her account and stalk or page on a daily basis.

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Submitted by nunya1983 on Mon, 07/20/2015 - 9:49am

Sorry, to answer your first question about the joint Facebook thing:

I did have my own Facebook at first, but once we got married dh wanted to get a joint Facebook account. I didn't care either way, so I agreed, but I didn't know how crazy bm was at the time.

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Submitted by onwednesdayswew... on Mon, 07/20/2015 - 5:06pm

Honestly who cares if she sees a picture of your kid? Is there anything on there that's so secretive??

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Submitted by nunya1983 on Mon, 07/20/2015 - 6:24pm

It's creepy that she would stalk my kids.... it's like saying, "so what if my kids have a stalker, what's so secretive?" Uh my family is mine, creepy stalker lady can go stalk her own kids... my kids are not for her enjoyment.

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Submitted by Disneyfan on Mon, 07/20/2015 - 8:53pm

Oh come on, looking at pictures of your kids isn't stalking them. LOL

Since SD has a cell phone, more than likely BM has already seen pictures if your kids.

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Submitted by nunya1983 on Tue, 07/21/2015 - 5:01am

SD isn't supposed to be taking pictures of dds. Dh and I have instructed her not to. She came in the first day she got her phone and said "BM told me I have to take pictures of dds!" Since then DH and I told her "HELL the F no! Absolutely not!" Every night before bed SD is to give bm her phone. I'm sure she's just making sure SD isn't playing with it all night, but street get demand of pictures of dds, I wouldn't doubt she looking for pictures.