:O I will make this short and to the point. I am a GF, have been told will never be his wife. He is not "good" at marriage. However,he acts like I am his wife. He is broke paying a huge amount of CS for 2 BC from 2 BM. We have them every other weekend. I have to pay for everything. I cook and clean up after them. He won't do anything. He says I'm the one who likes everything clean and organized!! well, I sure as hell don't want food and grime all over my house. I am so happy when one of the kids doesn't want to come over. He doesn't buy XMAS or Birthday gifts for them .