BM can't move on
It all started with just trying to schedule a time to call SD which SURPRISE was met with difficulty as it has been continuously for several months now. BM kept oversharing about her work instead of giving a time/date to call SD this weekend. So DH finally told her to stop oversharing when she refused to share any information about SD when the school and therapist were contacting DH out of concern for SD's mental and physical wellbeing. Guess what happened? She went off about things from 5+ years ago, dragging me into it claiming I talked shit about her, etc. Same thing she did a year ago and then she wonders why DH does not want to communicate with her and sticks to only minimum and necessary communication. Sounds like she still has not moved on. Meanwhile DH doesn't bring up about the child she passed off as his for years then took the rights away when he divorced her or anything from the past. Also, the main informant of this information is supposedly SD who was 3 and 4 at the time too.
EDIT: BM claimed SD had expressed being angry with DH not being able to talk normal with BM and other things about DH. So he emailed the therapist and asked if that had happened. The therapist says she doesn't know what BM is referring to and she would have brought it up with DH. So DH tells BM he followed up with the therapist and what she said. BM then calls DH a liar. Then DH shares the screenshot and BM suddenly says that it must of been a counselor then... Funny how the story changed after proof.
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Another BM who so crazy
That she has no friends. No one who will listen to her crap. So she has to overshare when ever she can. Bet SD is also tired of the nonsense
When a relationship
breaks up it's not uncommon for people to look backward at past partners as possibilities, no matter how insane the other person would have to be entertain the idea!
As long as your DH continues to shut her down it will stop, but it's got to be infuriating with her trying to make herself relevant now. She just needs something to fill her (empty) head with.
My husband's ex did this when she got dumped by her boyfriend. Too many "problems" she just had to discuss with him, yada yada yada. She even stopped by his parents house, the in-laws she detested during their marriage. It was bizarre but infuriating - but it passed.
Shit likes to stick to your shoe even after scraping it off.
My XW was like this. So was my SS's Spermidiot.
My XW had the genius idea that we could date and be lovers after we divorced. My response was "I was married to you. What makes you think I would want to date you after that?" No recognition that our 2.5yr marriage was nearly completely frigid while she was gobbling and riding every knob she could get her hands and any orifice of her body on the whole engagement and marriage. She was a hybrid of the Brown Headed Blue Eyed Double Breasted Knob Gobbler and the Brown Headed Blue Eyed, Double Breasted Mattress Thrasher. Only it was not my knob or our mattress she was gobbling and thrashing.
She was pregnant when she moved out of your recently purchased marital home. We had not been intimate in more than 8mos so baring the second immaculate conception, it was not mine. She played the tearful "You don't want to fight for me!!!" card when she told me she wanted a divorce and my response was "Go file.". Fortunately when she and my XFIL drove away with a truck and trailer full of her stuff she left her diaries which were a journal of her dalliances with names, dates, locations, etc... starting prior to our engagement, throughout our engagement, and throughout our blessedly brief marriage. That made the divorce decidedly simple though she did give it a good try to go toxic in partnership with the not then not yet convicted federal felon not then yet XMIL. Notarized copies of the diaries and notarized copies of every university paper she had turned in for 3 years written in my handwriting (the drafts) and the final typed graded papers shut down even that toxic attempt.
Regarding the SpermIdiot. After he cheated with yet another 16yo when my SS was not yet 1yo my then 17yo future bride booted his ass out. She had just graduated from HS with a baby on her hip and with COd full physical and legal custody a few months after his cheating she moved out of State for University. He dragged her along with promises of visits including flight information. Only to not get off of the plane after she spent hours on public transit buses to meet his flights. When the grapevine in SpermLand returned that my then GF was dating someone that is when SpermGrandHag went harpy from hell on my DW filing for custody.
We married the following summer. For the first few years of our marriage the Spermidiot would make occassional tear filled stoned out of his gourd calls to my DW sobbing about how much he loved her and missing his family. Laughter was DW's response followed by handing the phone to then toddler SS.
These types do not realize that they are shit, or at least are so delusional that they find it to be okay that they are shit and think that their being shit is okay with everyone else.
Do not lament the shit. Just keep scraping ot off of your shoes and exact the incredible revenge of living your best life.
They hate that.