So upset with myself right now. I was doing so well with the disengagement since the court date. Then yesterday, BM again misinterpreted the visitation schedule to her benefit and DH didn't get to pick up SD9 until this morning - although the papers clearly state Friday at 6 pm. And of course, DH was furious, ranting and raving. Throwing out all kinds of threats of finally standing up to her. Got my blood pressure all raised and excited that he may finally have had enough. Then I wake up this morning and all is right in his world because he picked up SD9 and absolutely nothing was said about any of it. There was no standing up to her. There wasn't even a comment about how underdressed SD9 was in this 20 degree weather like he said he was going to do. No, let's just put princess precious in the car and act like nothing ever happened - again. So Now I have to take some breaths and start all over on this road of disengagement.