So, I'm in bed already by choice, for many reasons. One, there just wasn't enough room on the couch to sprawl out, and two, my head hurts, and three, I had enough. I think I did enough damage for the evening.

SO and his kid came over and we went to dinner. One margarita later, and before we finished our appetizers, I had heard enough about BM. EVERYTHING was mom this, or mom that. Really? No one cares. SO just looked at me and shrugged so I started in. Oj, how is your mom. Is she good? Oh, she finally got a job, does she like it? Are you excited that you will have a better Christmas now that she is working? He was so happy. He just wanted to talk about his mom I guess. And he answered all my questions, like he thought that is what its supposed to be like. I'm sure he gets drilled about me every Sunday. And low and behold, Mr big bad had a margarita SO joined in. Hahaha. I was shocked. I was sure he would want to stab my eyeballs out for basically pumping his kid for info. I even said, oh, she is working with her bf right, what does he do. Of course the kid didn't know, and SO other went on a tangent about what we think he did, or used to do before he list his job, and weren't really sure, and the. Ss8 said something about cleaning Windows ,and we went with it.

Mind you, I have never asked this kid anything about his mom. Don't care to, and I didn't want to look like I was pumping a kid for info. Guess she tells him she only asks because she cares and needs to know. I dunno. Then SO took it one step further! Hahaha...god love him.

Last Saturday we Rec'd a frantic call from 2 hours away from BM who was at a flea market and thought some man was a threat to ss8. Really? And what are we supposed to do? Get all ruffled, drive there and protect him? Are you not grown enough to protect a kid from some creepy guy. Apparently this guy was being real nice, and gave ss8 some little car or something and BM thought for sure he had bad intentions. SO other listened to BM freak out, got ss8 on the phone, and asked him about it, ss8 blew him off and that was the end of it. (all this within the hour of both of us blocking her on fb because she shared a pic that me, SO and my son we tagged in if ss8 bday, and no, she didnt even get him a cake)

Soooo... After all the mom this and mom that, well into dinner now, SO asks again what all that was about. About his new friend. ss8 said something about the man having a child's mind(of course, in the my mind, I'm thinking someone else does too) but anyway. SO laughed and told ss8 he couldn't figure out why BM called him, and what did she expect him to do? That it didn't make sense. I went in for the kill. I asked ss8 if this man made him feel uncomfortable, or tried to take him somewhere, or touched him? All answers were no, that he was just like a child was all he said. I explained to him that there are many special people in the world, who have disabilities, and are basically 'retarded' in a real way (for lack of a better word) and that just because he was special, doesn't mean he was a bad guy.

Wow. And of course, I had another margarita.

We also dealt with the 'futon is uncomfortable, I have back pain at 8 issues' that we dealt with last week and I basically called an 8 year out on his bullshit. All night long. I asked him how many times in the last year or mire have him and bs13 slept in that futon and now its not good enough. He tried to say they never did. Then he tried to say bs never slept with him in the futon. Bullshit! And I told him that's a bunch of crap, that for at least the last year, overnight he was at my house they begged to sleep on it.

And you know what? SO backed me up and agreed. Little shit couldn't say a Damn thing.

Ugh. He is such a little fake and liar I can't stand it. And its like everyone knows he is full of it, and they just then the other cheek. I am done with that crap! Over it. And I'm to the point, that if SO doesn't like it, then he can go too. I'm sick of being ruled by an 8 yr, and pretending that he is not full of shit, and has serious issues.

Bs wasn't here this weekend, and we still had issues trying to pick a movie. Everything I said I liked, ss8 didn't like. And right in front of SO I said hmm, do you notice a difference? When my son was here just last Friday, we browsed the movies and selected one even though bs was like, I seen it. I said we watched what we wanted to watch. And yet now, we have give through every movie, and there is an issue with every single one? I got up, and walked away. Ss8 decided to get dads phone and watch something and told us we could watch what we want. HE WAS JUST BEING A DIFFICULT LITTLE SHIT.

And you know what? As soon as we got the 3d glasses on, and started the movie, his ass was right there.

Imagine that. Ugh. My head hurts. Nite all!