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non_mom23's picture

So my H is in apparently serious violation of the visitation agreement btw. him and the socio regarding SD8. Well b/c of socio's abuse of SD my H wasn't allowing socio to get her, well socio didn't have problems with that. Until a month ago when she filed papers that my H was in violation. So the consequences of this is jail time. Well we have full custody of SD and the socio doesn't want custody, great mom huh?

Well a few weeks ago we caught socio in a violation b/c she refused to return SD after her weekend was over. Her lawyer was pissed anyway, they won't drop it apparently unless H gives her joint custody...can you imagine!! So my H is going to apparently work up the nerve to talk to socio about dropping it considering that he will file a petition against her violation, doesn't it just make sense to drop it then go to court to revise the visitation, which my H want's to reduce her rights.

I know this socio and I don't think she'll drop it though we have a violation on her. It doesn't make any sense but I feel like we're constantly kissing her *ss. Also, I feel like we're kissing my SD's *ss too so that she'll want to stay with us. I put a stop to that right now b/c she is giving me serious attitude. I can choose to leave and I really want to make that clear to her, I will not put up with a little 8 y/o *itch!! Thank you very much...

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non_mom23's picture

You know what, I've come to realize that the socio will end up getting what she wants in the end. If that's joint custody then so be it. I can already tell that any more contact with the socio my SD8 will end up just like her, you know I don't want anything to do with those kinds of people. So if she goes to the socio's, eventually my H and I will have kids of our own and have control over them, by the way in my opinion my H and I aren't socios, hehe. I'm sick of the crap and just the fact that I'm looking forward to my own family keeps me optimistic kind of. I know that some of us feel this way Smile

Also, do any of your H's know about this site? Do you talk to them about it? I'm contemplating telling him that I need help...and this is where I get it.

maybeonesoon's picture

I am new to the site, but I showed it to my B/F and told him that I hope he doesn't mind. He said he didn't. Whether or not he looks on here, I don't know. I actually think maybe it would help him a little if he did....

BridgingTheGap's picture

I told him that I get my help from here. No one in my family has really dealt with skids before and out of all my friends, only one has a SD. BF understands that I just needed to find people who "get it". I've always wondered whether or not he's read the posts on the site...I kinda wish he would

sarahbernheart's picture

and he was none to happy-he didnt like that I was talking about his little angels in a negative light-
I told him this site helped me alot and that I had was going to stay on-
I did change my screen name though after he found out about it.

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