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BM finds out you are pregnant with DH's child

NonEvilStepmom's picture

Submitted by NonEvilStepmom on Tue, 07/16/2013 - 8:36am

How did she react? I wanna know!

Mine was insanely jealous and although I hate to admit it, I loved every minute of it.

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Submitted by Imgoingtoscream on Tue, 07/16/2013 - 8:45am

Ha! Good for you!

When BM found out that we were pregnant she was the same as yours insanely jealous. She told her kids that our kids weren't their "real" brother and sister and then everything my husband did was for "his" family instead of HER kids. Even funnier she has a hysterectomy so she can't have anymore kids! Everyone in the world should be thanking God for that one!

Good Luck and congrats!

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Submitted by NonEvilStepmom on Tue, 07/16/2013 - 8:58am

lmao mine did something similar. She told SD7 that alllllll the focus would be on the baby and we would forget all about her. How could we forget about her? She lives in our house more than she lives with BM...??? So then of course we had to sit SD7 down and explain to her that YES, babies need more attention because they can't do anything themselves. The positive thing is it broke her from her attention-seeking ways. She finally gave up on the interrupting conversations and crawling and hanging all over daddy. Thank God.

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Submitted by chokinonlemons2u on Wed, 07/17/2013 - 12:50am

The RiceSlinger also told the skids that they were each others only real siblings , them and Snooki DHs oldest child from an ex girlfriend he never married. Chokins kids and the baby were NOT any relation to them. Smh..@@

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Submitted by not2sureimsanea... on Tue, 07/16/2013 - 8:57am

Not SURE if this is a result of her finding out we're pregnant or not and may be more related to the fact that we're a month from our due date, but it might be. This has been within the last few weeks.

A new nail in DH's tire. I think /I/ have a nail in my front left tire because it's making strange noises like DH's did when he got one in his, but I haven't been able to find it yet. Got it around the same time he did this time around. (So count I think 9 nails in DH's 2 cars, and one in mine.)

BM moving to another state with GBM and SS.

BM telling MIL they didn't have time for visitors this year all summer long, and last week calling MIL up saying they have time now but it's only the two weeks of my due date in mid August. (MIL was torn, but DH gave her his blessing to go so she's ecstatically gonna go visit. She wants to play tug of war with MIL, go ahead, we're far from threatened.)

Mutual "friends" of BM and us (no longer friends with them, just cordial because we know they report to BM) suddenly popping up after a long absence asking DH when the baby's due and other details relating to the baby.

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I call a prediction that she's going to pull something when we're in the hospital--like attempting to get DH served with new CS case because they moved to another state. Hopefully that's just my imagination and everything goes peacefully.

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Submitted by fakemommy on Tue, 07/16/2013 - 9:06am

OMG. My skid's BM immediately took out her IUD and got pregnant herself!!! So funny!! She keeps talking about how she didn't want any more kids and really wished she could have gotten her tubes tied after the 2nd.

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Submitted by Aeron on Tue, 07/16/2013 - 9:27am

Filed a contempt case against DH and then took the ultrasound photo we had sent SD and returned it to our lawyer. Me thinks she's not too happy.

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Submitted by Steppin on Tue, 07/16/2013 - 9:34am

Who knows. From the time we got married (2009) until about a year ago, neither of us said one word to BM. I assume SS10 told her we were pregnant. Never heard anything about her reaction. For our second kid, she did send along a little present for the baby though which was nice.

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Submitted by chokinonlemons2u on Wed, 07/17/2013 - 12:46am

...and spritz her in Holy water every time the demon comes near lest it tries to touch her.

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Submitted by bi on Tue, 07/16/2013 - 11:12am

when bm found out i was pregnant for bs5, she called fdh and told him "i just want you to know that i'm ok with you having another kid". :? i guess she was giving us permission to have the baby we were already expecting? :? fdh told me he didn't know what made her think he gave a fuck if she was ok with it or not. i wanted to thank her for allowing me to have my own child, but i just rolled my eye. i don't know what her response to bs6weeks has been. sd is 20, so there is no communication between fdh and bm anymore.

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Submitted by NonEvilStepmom on Tue, 07/16/2013 - 12:30pm

I look forward to that day when DH talks to BM like that. But that will never happen. He's too nice of a guy. That's why he put up with BM for so long in the first place. I'll tell her that, however. In a heartbeat. lol Permission. pffft.

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Submitted by bi on Tue, 07/16/2013 - 9:48pm

i don't think he actually said that to her, that's just what he said to me about it. she's stupid. i don't think she was ever jealous, they had been done for 14 years when i got pregnant, but i think she was pissed off at the idea that any future cs reviews would take into consideration that he had another kid to support and she felt like she was getting ripped off. even though he paid cs and went above and beyond, like paying for her school clothes, school pictures, everything related to her extracurriculars, etc.

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Submitted by chokinonlemons2u on Wed, 07/17/2013 - 12:43am

I wish my husband would nut up and tell off the RiceSlinger too sometimes. There have been moments that she REALLY had it coming.

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Submitted by chokinonlemons2u on Wed, 07/17/2013 - 12:41am

Well you couldve warned me before I flipped through my Websters edition and lost my lunch after seeing that snarling image from the page

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Submitted by smomof2 on Tue, 07/16/2013 - 1:21pm

When BM found out she sent an email followed by a text message saying "we all need to sit down and discuss SM's pregnancy". DH told her that there's nothing to discuss. She then went on about how I better not mistreat her kids now that I'm having mine. A few days later she emailed DH telling him that she's celibate and not dating for the sake of the kids, she listed all the "sacrifices" she made for her kids, how difficult it is to be single parent and called DH weak for not staying single. BM comes up with something to bitch about each week. We haven't heard from her this week.... yet; but then again it's only Tuesday.

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Submitted by bi on Tue, 07/16/2013 - 9:45pm

i can't even imagine. i care so very little, well...actually i don't care at all what my ex does and never have. i cannot imagine telling him we needed to discuss his wife's pregnancy. :O even if he was a part of bd's life, i would have never done that. if she had questions and wanted to talk to me about it, i would have talked to her, but no way in hell would i have asked for a sit down with him and the wife about it. that just reeks of insecurity and jealousy.

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Submitted by chokinonlemons2u on Wed, 07/17/2013 - 12:33am

She sounds like my oldest brother in law. He calls DH weak for dating and reading after his divorce and acts like he deserves a medal for being alone for the past 20 years since his divorce so he could " focus all his attention on the boys when they visited" . On and on about how DH is sooo weak.

But now HE is 55 and all alone, his kids are adults with their own lives, he never had more kids and these are more involved with their mothers side of the family. He never remarried. He is alllll alone and very depressed.

My husband is 43 and happy! He has his.kids from first marriage, we have our baby,he has me and we love each very much. He is happy.

Poor BIL ..all alone and the one that he does love doesn't love him back.

That's going to be your skids BM one day.

It isn't weak to move on with your life and find love and happiness again. Its weak to get hurt once then live in fear of ever getting close enough to anyone to get hurt again

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Submitted by NonEvilStepmom on Thu, 07/18/2013 - 9:19am

haha I LOVE your DH's response to that. Mine would have responded the same way. "There's nothing to talk about. If you have any questions, ask my wife"

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Submitted by NonEvilStepmom on Thu, 07/18/2013 - 9:19am

haha I LOVE your DH's response to that. Mine would have responded the same way. "There's nothing to talk about. If you have any questions, ask my wife"

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Submitted by SM with BM from hell on Tue, 07/16/2013 - 2:48pm

My DH is being taken to court for CS. After years of us providing for both homes now she claims he doesn't do "anything for SD" and she has been more than "reasonable". Never mind they have joint legal and physical custody and he awaits goes above and beyond.

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Submitted by Just J on Tue, 07/16/2013 - 4:33pm

My husband's ex tried to get pregnant herself. This was after getting engaged right after us and getting married right after us. I know she did these things to keep up with DH because when we got engaged she wasn't even seeing anyone and two months later she had dug up her old high school boyfriend and announced they were engaged. Luckily she didn't get pregnant though, I think karma doesn't allow you to have a revenge baby when you don't even mother the 2 kids you already have.

She also told my DH that she was "sorry we were having a baby we didn't plan and couldn't afford" when he refused to give her extra money beyond CS. I still hate her for saying that 10 years later. Jealous bitch.

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Submitted by bi on Tue, 07/16/2013 - 9:46pm

do they not realize comments like that show their jealousy in bright, bold colors! try not to get upset, she's just pissed that her plan to punish dh for having a child with someone else didn't work.

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Submitted by chokinonlemons2u on Wed, 07/17/2013 - 12:23am

The RiceSlinger started pressuring her boyfriend to marry her ( skids told me about the fights) then after he dumped her she immediately got pregnant by the next guy but lost the baby.

Then she tried to say our baby wasn't my husband's. Pathetic...

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Submitted by lil_lady on Tue, 07/16/2013 - 9:53pm

I just found out I am pregnant... I am very curious/happy for the day I get to tell EVERYONE and witness some good old fashioned BM fireworks I will most like pop some popcorn and wait. Hell I will eat popcorn for 5 days! She doesn't seem to be over BF (he ended it) everytime she breaks it off with a guy she starts trying to communicate with him for stupid reasons... I think it should be a good one.

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Submitted by chokinonlemons2u on Wed, 07/17/2013 - 12:19am

Id postpone that lil lady. The BM may get pissed and go after more CS and being your just a girlfriend the judge may not care that your BF is expecting another child . And she may interfere with his parenting. The last thing you need during pregnancy is psycho BM drama

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Submitted by lil_lady on Wed, 07/17/2013 - 1:02am

Oh trust me we are but when that day comes I think it should be interesting to see what she pulls. SD is 6 so when we are telling family and I start showing BM will most likely know. Unfortunately she is also still close with a lot of his family. She will know when we announce it... That being said I cant wait to see what she says.

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Submitted by lil_lady on Thu, 07/18/2013 - 7:54pm

Thank you!! we are very excited! Well I was until this morning week 6 and here comes the "morning" sickness ha! morning...

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Submitted by Bex_S on Sun, 12/22/2019 - 6:28am

BM really upped the drama, each time we were pregnant. She verbally abused us way more, and even wished our babies dead. Unfortunately on 2 occasions she got her wish. SD's behaviour deteriorated also. Neither of them could stand to not be centre of attention any more...they couldn't stand that they couldn't control DH as much any more, and couldn't stand  to see him happy. We had the same with each milestone in our relationship.