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BM Sucks as a mom

Ninji's picture

Since BM has been engaged for 1 1/2 weeks, she has texted SO at least 4x's saying

They will be a real family now
Boy Toy Fiancé is going to be a better dad than SO
She and BT Fiancé are better parents than SO and I
She and BT Fiancé can take care of the kids better than us

My feelings are great...Please parent you kids so that I can take a break from it. Please be a real family while they are at your house. They need it.

But it's all talk. Maybe she's trying to get SO jealous but is mad because he isn't.

Anyway, Last Thursday was SD's B Day and she was with BM. We get them on the weekend and give SD a party at our house on Saturday. Just us (she doesn't have any friends) with a cake and some gifts.

On Sunday, SO ask SD if her mom got her a B Day cake. Of course SD says no. (BM never has since I've known them). SO asked me if I cared if SD took the cake from our house to BM's house. Most years, I don't care and let them. But after BM's attitude, I told SO "No, Let BT Fiancé buy SD a cake. He's the better parent right?"

I don't care if it's totally bitchy thing to do. I'm so sick of the fighting between SO and BM. I bought the cake. If SD wants cake at BM's house, than BM can buy/make her one.

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princessmofo's picture

WTF is wrong with these women? This sounds like twat waffle. She divorced dh, ran around, made his life, his family's and my life a living hell for years. Then she is just flabbergasted that dh wants NOTHING to do with her. EVER. Like, she can't let go. She still wants an emotional response from him and just amps up the cray-cray when she can't get one.

Ninji's picture

I feel the same way. I'm so glad I didn't have kids with my EXH. He was addicted to all kinds of drugs and alcohol. He wanted kids but I refused to have kids with him being so irresponsible. He said having kids would make him grow up. Yeah right, not taking that chance.