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SD10 doesn't go to school for 2nd day in a row.

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Submitted by newbiemommy on Tue, 09/20/2011 - 9:17am

Schooltime is my ONLY alone time with SO. Especially this weekend because on his day off and her day to be at her moms she was here while he went out! I was so looking forward to our two mornings together. And both days he had a "reason" to keep her home. And both days I get completely ignored and treated like and outsider. I feel like when his kids are around, which is full time by the way, that I am not even on his radar anymore. For example he takes the communal tv and turns on cartoons then our tv he's playing games. Cool he took care of kids and himself but not me.

Oh, you are going partying while I watch YOUR brat!?

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Submitted by newbiemommy on Sun, 09/18/2011 - 5:29pm

So my DH is going to help out with his cousins band. There are so many thing I find wrong.
1. It has caused HUGE issues with us in the past. I HATE how they act, drink, flirt, ect. at these shows. And he said he was done with that.
2. Why do we keep going back to this kid is MY responsibility. She is horrid to me and I'm forbidden from disciplining his "sweet baby girl". How does that work that you expect someone to be a caregiver and let your kid do whatever without consequences??
3. You are 32 years old. I think that's a little old to be doing the teen band crap.

Baby mama DRAMA!!!!

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Submitted by newbiemommy on Tue, 09/13/2011 - 8:53pm

Two steps forward but THREE steps back. I think BMs can sense when things are going right in SM world and they just HAVE to f'n start some shit!!!! Ugh UGH UGHHHHH!!! I so want to throw her off a cliff right now. And she turns SO into the little boy she kept him as when they were together by holding skids over his head. WHY OH WHY did he have to tie himself to THAT FOREVER!?!?!? I'm back to wondering why the hell I stay. Why do or DHs get with those HORRIBLE THINGS we call BM!? I literally feel sick right now!

I don't know why I stay

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Submitted by newbiemommy on Fri, 09/09/2011 - 9:16pm

I'm not sure why or how but I let SD get into my head. My SO and I got together because I got pregnant. And I just feel in my gut he's always going to love his ex. Even his kids notice a difference. My SD10 told me how her dad loved his other kids mom and how he would act with her and honestly I let it go until I started thinking about it. He's always remembering "innocent," things about her and making comparisons between the two of us. And another thing I found out they are still legally married and that bugs me. I just feel like I'm always going to be the poor mans substitute of her.

UPDATE: "It smells like pee"

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Submitted by newbiemommy on Wed, 09/07/2011 - 5:01pm

Well SD10 peed AGAIN. Probably the 3 or 4 time without washing bed or clothes. Daddy finally started to smell the pee through the closed door! So when she got home from school she was in trouble!!!! Finally.
Downside: who had to go to work so who had to sit here and assist in homework, cleanup, fix dinner, make sure she takes her shower, and get her stuff ready for school. That right. I get to be the ONLY bad guy. As usual.
UPSIDE!!!:

"It smells like pee"

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Submitted by newbiemommy on Tue, 09/06/2011 - 7:17pm

I have begun to refuse to clean up after my SD 10 who pees herself and the bed at least once a day. Therefore she has had many "accident free" days. *eyeroll* Really SO just never checks so she sleeps in pee and her clothes just sit there instead of getting washed. Well, today he's doing her laundry. She brings out her clothes only and the entire area smells awful. His only comment, "It smells like pee" She ignores him and continues watching tv. Then gets rewarded 5 minutes later with MY butter toffee popcorn. *¿¡$#&@%!?

Evil step mother?? I think disney got it twisted!

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Submitted by newbiemommy on Fri, 09/02/2011 - 3:31pm

More like evil step daughter! I think its because they can't stand not being the only girl in daddys life. As far as step sons?? I have a wonderful one! I know there are the bad ones out there, but it seems like there are so many more SD issues than SS. Both my SD are horrible. My SO just laughs that they "take after their mom". Don't even get me started on BM! I definitely think Disney should have talked to the step mom because those poor little SDs can sure paint quite a story. Way to go Disney...

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