After 3 months of not a word, and before that a year of almost non-existence, BM1 showed up crying her eyes out last night at 8 p.m. with her other kids in tow at my front door. Fml!!! Her and SO and SD11 all had a private little reunion. :sick: When they came back in I had quite the talk with SO. Number one, she IS NOT under any circumstances allowed to ever show up at my house again, next time the cops will be right behind her (she threatened me AND my 1 year old daughter). Number 2, she WILL live up to her responsibilities. I'm tired of raising this child by myself until one of her parents finds it convenient to parent. And she will provide for her daughter since she is getting food and cash assistance claiming SD11 is with her full time. This kid has two capable parents, why is the step doing EVERYTHING!? Three, they still need to go back to court and get all this shit IN WRITING and court ordered.
I really don't know how to feel. On the one hand, ecstatic that I am hopefully done playing mom for a kid that hates me. On the other terrified this horrible b*tch is back in my life as she has caused constant hell for me in the past. On the upside, that means finally getting alone time with SO every once in awhile. God these BMs really love to just totally disrupt my life!