the nerve of Bm to call DH yesterday and ask him not not claim SS this year and let her claim him and well next year he can claim both. No thanks you your words are shit and mean nothing. I'm Sorry you make good money working for your daddy pay uncle sam what he asks for what do you think we dont need to claim what we can get. I just dont understand were these idiots get the illusion that thjey are entitled to change things as they please regardless of co. To top it off what gets to me is DH being an idiot an considering it. He says as long as she pays us the differece it makes not claiming SS on the spot I'm Sorry why are we going to have to pay more because she wants to save another buck, I dont understand why he feels the need to help her out when she cant even pay for any thing in regards to SD sports He has lost his mind or maybe I have maybe this is normal??? I dont care if she gives us money she is benefiting in he long run while she sticks it to us I told Dh i dont think so i dont understand your need to help her and its not just your decision its not just you anymore. BM how about instead of seeing how you cna make an extra buck you pay attention to your brats in particular to you daughter who has poopy undearwear she is 9 this shouldnt be an issue how about you teach her about respect, how about you worry about your sons grades im sorry but F's D's and C's is not good as you seem to think. DH get over your guilty daddy syndrome. I just dont get it!