I've been reading these blogs for months. There's a lot of good info on here. I was glad to know that I wasn't the only one. Here's my situation. I've been with my fiance over a year. We are getting married in June. Things have been rough between he and I. He lost his job last year and I've pretty much been paying for things although his unemployment has helped too. We have our beefs, but we usually work them out. The problem is his 9 year old daughter. She really aggravates me. She's super hyper, needy, and overindulgent.