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Submitted by Nemo on Mon, 06/21/2010 - 6:57pm

:? SO and I are planning on moving in together between now and October sometime. I'm just worried. I know I shouldn't be thinking about these things and be happy that we are thinking about taking that step, but I'm worried. I'm worried because SO has already done all this before. I haven't. I haven't been in a relationship that is THIS serious. I've never lived with a guy before. I'm sad because all my firsts will be with someone who has already had them all. I feel like I'm competing with HER. Am I jealous of her? Do I think they still love each other? No to both. I know he loves me.

"Look what your doing to my face

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Submitted by Nemo on Thu, 06/10/2010 - 7:20pm

This is what BM told my SO when she came to get SD the other day. Her face is BROKEN OUT! And she said "Look SO what your doing to my face" Uh, Lady... You talk to SO about once or twice a week... AND HES MAKING YOU BREAK OUT? Oh hunnie, you have serious issues. Then she had to tell him about one of her friends who is having a baby and how bloated and huge her face is. "Remember after I had SD, SO? How swollen my face was? Well, that's how hers is. REMEMBER SO???????

BM called today

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Submitted by Nemo on Sat, 05/22/2010 - 5:07pm

And said that SO is to take SD EVERY weekend and one day during the week. If he doesn't like it then she will see him in court.and that he has to pay her 100 dollars a week. She also said that, SD said I control SO and that she doesn't want me around her daughter. HAHA! Like she has a choice in the matter. I'm here to stay BM!

UGH I don't really know what to do anymore with her.

Why does lip gloss and nail polish make a little girl a slut?

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Submitted by Nemo on Fri, 05/21/2010 - 8:13pm

I bought my SD these sequined flip fops with a little heel on them the other day acually. They are very cute. SO loved them too.

She wears my lip gloss and smell good body spray, always uses my lotion and sometimes wears sparkels on her eyes. and guess what? Shes 5! Does that make her a slut? No, she's 5. She wants to be a big girl, and she wants to be like her mother and me. Does that make anything wrong that we indulge her? No.

Her two fav colors are purple and pink. Wanna know why? Because purple is her mothers, and pink is mine.

What to do about this?

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Submitted by Nemo on Wed, 05/19/2010 - 9:56am

Lately, when we have SD, she won't listen to SO when I'm around.She only listens to me! Then he gets mad and yells at me that I need to go tell her (BLANK) and make her listen.

I don't want her to get in more trouble then she is already in by not listening to her dad, but we don't know what to do. She has started listening to me when I say something the first time, but she competely ignore SO.

Any suggestions on what to do?

I asked members in my family, and they said MAKE HER LISTEN.