was wondering if anyone is going thru all this in Fl., I read some of the blogs about adoption and kinda got curious mainly cause BM doesn't have anything to do with SD except her phone calls that was court order so I know the only reason she calls is because she feels she has to but with her sister having every other weekend visits would that count as the same if she was getting her it is confusing as to why sister gets visitation but the judge said because SD has the right to know that side of family and since BM doesn't give a S**T we need to,well it is summer now and the Aunt is suppose to get her for a month but she wants it on her terms and we told her NO every other week or forget it well she said if she doesn't get her 30 days straight back to court we go O"WELL see ya there,Keep in mind I have been here thru it all from every scrape to fall and through out her 16 months being with me I have taught her so much she was a scared little 3 yr. old when she first walked through my door now she is a bright,smart,and happy know it all 5 yr. old that is so full of life she calls my BS and BD her bro and sis I'm mom and dad is dad so when her BM hears this she flips but like I have tried to explain to BM I'm here your not what do you expect we have sat down and explained the best way to a 5 yr. old that I am step-mom and Amy is her mother but it goes in one ear and out the other (I LOVE IT)BM gets so pissed hearing her say it I shine inside every time....Okay well if anyone is in Fl. and has been thru the courts maybe can give some advice on what we should do..Thanks Nikki