It is really NONE of my business what BM of SS11 does with him on her weekends...I know this! But it really pisses me off that she NEVER has him on HER weekends. She can always find someone to take him off of her hands!( I never have mentioned this to her but I have to DH...nothing he can really do about it though) This past weekend...she thought it was going to be us. No bitch...don't think so! So of course...she finds someone else to send him to! It might not make me so mad if the same were true for us. If we have something planned and find a sitter for him (and it's for ONE night not the ENTIRE weekend) she raises hell that we don't have him and that DH is not spending time with him. SS11 will call her whenever we take him to DHs mom's house and complain that he doesn't want to be there and to come get him....which in turn means she calls DH and gets all over him for not spending time with him.(But she WILL NOT go get SS11 no matter how much he calls crying about it) I can't help the fact they we ALSO have lives and can't rearrange EVERYTHING to suit him! We don't ask her to watch him...that would be totally out of the question because that would mean she couldn't go bar hopping. I don't care what she does in her free time or on her weekends...but don't bitch at us for having a life too!!!