Ok, since this is "where stepparents come to vent" here u go!
I have have been with my dh for four years, his daughter is now 7 going to be 8. I will just vent about the most recent issues. First u must understand that he wasnt even in her life until we got together. The court order says that he gets her every other weekend..to often if u ask me. Well this year dh decided that he wanted her for 6 weeks of her summer break! OMFG! So the mother decides that sd brat should spend 3 weeks here then 3 weeks with bm then 3 MORE weeks here. Right now we are at the 3 weeks with bm soo sd brat will be back! OMFG! Well during the first 3 weeks the bm didnt call and speak to me or dh about how her BRAT was doing or behaving..so let me tell u. I am 27 weeks pregnant and have a 15 month old son and a 16 year old daughter. Sd Brats father works ALL the time dosent get home till 8 or 9 sometimes ok most times. Sd is not here spending time with here father, she is spending 95% of the time with me and her bm knows this. My daughter and I are not considered her step anything by bm so I am the forever babysitter!!! She is a total f*cking brat ALL THE TIME she is mean to my 15 month old pushes him down, closes doors in his face, smashes his little fingers in the doors, wont play with him, takes his toys from him and refuses to play with her own toys that we have spent hundreds of dollars on. If she dose something wrong and u try to talk to her she starts this crybaby s*it and says "she dosent know why she dose these things" So since im nothing more than the freaking babysitter when dh comes home I tell him about his freakin brat and what she has done that day and he gets mad at saying "that he is sick of hearing about her behavior and that me and my 16 year old are ganging up on her" and does nothing about it! I would like to think that her bm and my dh would not want to put all this added stress on me being that Im entering my 3rd trimester of pregnancy but NOOOO! I just absolutly can not stand her and if she never came here again it would be to soon!!!! Everything is a problem... She dosent like the food I cook...umm hamburgers, spagetti, chicken you know. she says that her and her mom eat fast food all the time, whatever! She tried to call her mom while she was here and her mom didnt answer so she said that her mom was bussy drinking smoking and talking to boys! Her mom dresses her like a little hooker short skirts high heels and belly shirts! I think shes ugly she thinks shes a princess. I dont even believe that my dh is her bio father!!!!! Since there is no way arround it for me I just cant wait to get the next 3 weeks (forever!!!!!!) over so I only have to deal with her crap every other weekend!! BTW I learned that for the last 4 years that she has been comming over every other weekend she has been on her best behavior because her true colors came out on the last 3 weeks from hell! I would rather get a divorce than have to deal with her brat ass!!