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Well that went as well as a Root Canal....The Saga continues

mumzy79's picture

We were supposed to have visitation this weekend with skids. BM said we could only have one skid as doctor said SS5 couldn't travel due to his cast. We had an email from the doctor stating he could, but she would not release them without a signed note...WHATEVER. DH showed up with local police. They demanded that she release both skids. She called her lawyer...long story short police supervisor said not to go any further as it would be too traumatic for SS5. Here we go again with the Golden Uterus BM's thinking they get to control everything. At this point, DH doesn't even see the point in filing a contempt charge. Now he is thinking that maybe we should just go to break only visitations (Xmas, Summer, etc) just so this BS doesn't keep happening. It really depresses him and isnt good for the skids. What to y'all think?

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srangel112's picture

My only advice is to document everything that does not follow the boundaries of what is set forth in the agreement. Our BM is supposed to have standard visits of 1, 3, 5 wknds Friday through Sunday; however, since August when it was mediated she has yet to do that. Instead, she gets them Saturday through Sunday. Now that I am in the picture more blazingly, she is trying to enforce bringing the kids on Fridays. Luckily nothing can be done right now because there is a stay in place due to DH's bankruptcy.

Smac's picture

You need to file an enforcement of parenting time. This doesn't stop. My sd's BM did this so many times. You need to make sure your parenting plan is detailed and clear also as respect to visitation.