New Stepmother for over a year now and my patience is at its last straw already. I am 33yo with no children and my husband is 43yo with 3 children (2 of which were living with us) but us together alone we have no issues whatsoever as a couple (other then he can be a little to junky for my ODC neat freak self lol). Stepkids are as follows... Boy 18yo, Girl 17yo and another Girl 5yo (by a different mother then his ex wife). My husband was married for 10 years but physically together in same home for only about 6 yrs.