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Submitted by msheretostay09 on Tue, 12/21/2010 - 9:17am

Quick update:

We decided to hold off on getting married and moving in together. I'm glad I made the decision because it has made us closer. I am realizing now how hard all of this is on him and the kids... I even feel sorry for BM who seems to be very confused and bitter and acting on repulse.

Move in or stay in my own place?

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Submitted by msheretostay09 on Fri, 09/04/2009 - 1:36pm

My BF and I have been discussing moving in with each other by next summer (before my son enter HS) So I'd be moving in with him. He has joint custody of his boys with his BM. We live an hour away from each other. He lives closer to his children (about 20 minutes). My son is in the 8th grade, his oldest son is in 7th his youngest in 1st. Now, if I move with him, I'll have to uproot my son to move in with him. I suggested that he could move to MY area which is about 40 minutes away from his boys and then my son wouldn't have to leave his school system, his friends, his way of things.

My BF is still dependant on BM!!

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Submitted by msheretostay09 on Mon, 08/31/2009 - 10:25am

I feel like my BF is ... a little too dependant on BM. He looks for her to keep him on track with doc appointments, football schedules (both SS's play football), parent teacher conferences, EVERYTHING and I believe that these are things that he should have his OWN schedule for. He should be able to schedule doc appointments(since they are on his health ins), he shouldn't have to call her to see what time SS6's football game is or if SS12's game is cancelled because of rain! He should have his own damn schedule!

My BF's Son/SS told my son and I to be quiet!!

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Submitted by msheretostay09 on Sun, 08/30/2009 - 9:02am

I have to vent about this because it's still something that is NOT sitting to well with me. On a weekend that BF had his boys (SS12 and SS6) we were all going to the gokarts and while we were getting out of the car, BM called SS12's cellphone to speak with her boys. Now, we were all laughing and joking when she called talking about something on their level and out of no where, SS12 goes, "Shhhhhhh" Finger against his lips and all...