It never ends with this kid...
SO is 5 hours away for work this week again. Its been like 6 weeks now and its really starting to get to me.
To add to it, we've had SD13 for the past 3 weekends which means yep, we haven't had 2 minutes of alone time in about a month. Plus she's coming this weekend. Why? Because BM is on vacation with her new boyfriend.
Yesterday I see that SD was on Facebook. She was banned from Facebook like a month ago for inappropriate online behavior. So I tell SO. He calls SD and gives her shit and finds out that she turned the house upside down looking for her old ipod touch and told her aunt (who is staying with her during the week while BM is away) she was allowed to have it and that it cant go on the internet which was a total lie. SO told her aunt she wasn't allowed to have it so she took it away.
I get a call at work today from SD's great aunt and she tells me that after SO called last night, SD freaked out and said she hated her dad and didn't want to come our house anymore and she unplugged the house phone so he couldn't call her anymore. Her aunt told her to plug the phone back in, so she did but now the phone wont work and SD tells her aunt she has no idea why the phone wont work. Bullshit! This kid lies about everything.
Since SO is 5 hours away, I have to go to the house after work and get SD to undo whatever she did to the phone or try to fix it myself. I feel so bad for this aunt. She can't handle SD. I've never spoken to this woman before and for her to call me must mean she's at the end of her rope and its only been 2 days! She said the little brat tried to convince her that she didn't have to go to school today. She told me that me and SO are the best thing for SD because we have rules and are strict with her. Her exact words were "BM is useless and lets her do whatever she wants". This is BM's aunt! For your own aunt to say that about you is pretty bad.
And where is BM in all of this??? Sitting on a nice sunny beach in Cuba having a romantic time with her new boyfriend. We haven't had a vacation in 5 years because all our extra money goes to Child Support!!! Actually we have never had a vacation together ever! She uses our child support money to go on a vacation every 3 months!
If I didn't love SO so much I would be effing gone! And he knows it too. He's so mad and has called me 3 times already today to apologize and thank me for taking care of this. This is the LAST time. I'm bowing out. Its been a blast but I'm done saving the day all the time and doing shit for this kid when she has no respect for anyone!
And BM is going to hear about it too! DONE
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SD freaked out and said she
SD freaked out and said she hated her dad and didn't want to come our house anymore and she unplugged the house phone so he couldn't call her anymore
Strange, I was just daydreaming and thinking this would be heaven! I would LOVE it if SD16 said the above statement.....
and speaking of daydreaming... maybe you'll get lucky and BM will relocate to Cuba with her boy toy and take SD with her???
and who "vacations" in Cuba? Am I that out of touch with the travel world?
My issue isn't so much that
My issue isn't so much that she's on vacation and we cant go on vacation. Yeah it pisses me off and I'm bitter about it but the main thing here is that we are in the middle of a family crisis with SD. Just 2 weeks ago she was cutting and threatening to kill herself. We had a meeting with a crisis counselor 2 weeks ago that she was too busy to attend. We have another one tomorrow to try and get SD some serious help for her issues. I'm sorry but if my kid was threatening suicide, the LAST thing I would be doing is leaving the country for a Vacay with my very NEW boyfriend.