So My dh's final hearing for full custody is coming up, and I feel like a selfish jerk but I don't feel ready for ss to live with dh all the time yet. This custody thing has taken almost a yr and I'm used to it just being my dh dd and myself. Bm has kept dh from ss since the second we got engaged and it's a terrible thing she did BUT I like my family the way it is right now. I know I'm awful but is there anyone else who has felt like this?