I have a wonderful relationship with my SD, despite BM's stupidity. BM was not stupid up until she got married recently now it is constantly something, but I do not let that affect my relationship with SD. Does anyone else have a great relationship with their SKid or SKids? I mean truly a wonderful relationship where you consider your SKid to be yours regardless of being a bio parent or not. I hear so many horror stories and just hope and pray that my relationship with SD doesn't end up like that. No offense to anyone.

I tried to be positive this morning and email BM about the conversation from yesterday. I was being the bigger person I did not say a cross word nor did I put her down. That was not the case yesterday when I fired back at her by explaining the fact that there were numerous choices for a father being she slept with 5 different people in a few week time span after she put my husband down stating he was not there for the delivery of SD, and blah blah blah.