I am the biological mother of four girls and step mother of a boy and a girl. My husband and I have been together for 2.5 years and things have been hard. I love my husband very much and he is a wonderful man. When we are alone we do fine but the moment the kids are around I am tense and very unhappy. From the beginning his daughter was the drama queen and he sees no imperfections. Also my daughters have never really opened their hearts to him and understandably so he feels like an outsider. Him and one of my girls have not spoken for 3 weeks because he is childish.