Hi everyone new to this thing here. I have 2 children with my husband and a SD. Me and bio mom have no relationship what so ever, however I have raised her daughter since before she turned 2 while she was in and out of her life. She is now 8. She is a very bitter negative person even after this long and always rude to me and our kids. Now that they have set order she is more consistent with coming to get her.This may seem petty but everytime my SD comes back from her moms visitations she gives her candy but doesnt tell her she needs to share.