***BREAKING NEWS***
SSstb18 told SO then the 3 of us talked about the recent developments!!
BM and her husband moving states away (average 8 hour drive)
NOW! We always thought they would move north 3-5 hour drive (she brought this up to skids years ago) but not south.
We only have a few details so here they are:
•BM has only told SS19. She told him NOT to tell SD15 or SSstb18 but he did. **shoulder shrugs**
•BM said something to SS19 about maybe renting "her" (it's her husbands) house. LOLLL i think this BM blowing smoke because her husband is VERY strict and I could only imagine the outcome of that... it would be a totally disaster.
•BM has NOT said anything to SD or SSstb18 yet..
Thats all we got. Ironically this is my brother's state (VA) and SO and I were there visiting last week when BM told SS19 then he told the other two.
SSstb18 also said that SD was on the phone last week with BM and SS19 got mad at her because SD told BM where we were (annoying but whatever) and he thought she was throwing him under the bus. He also mentioned that SD was mad/upset that BM wouldn't be around for her highschool grad.... SD is a sophomore so that's years away and I think she was just trying to justify (to herself) about being upset about BM moving.
SO and I are very curious on how this all is going to unfold.
I mean BM is 3.5 miles away now and doesn't see them...
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Interesting.... I wonder why
Interesting.... I wonder why the change from north to south. Did SS say it was for a job?
It sucks for the kids to think that mom is moving away from them and won't be there for them, but I am sure they will quickly see it really doesn't change anything. Like you said, she doesn't put in effort now and she is 3 miles away.
To make SD feel better, maybe remind her that it's just a car ride and BM "can" still come up and be there for the big stuff like graduation. She won't... but she "can".
Doesn't have to do with jobs.
Doesn't have to do with jobs.. I think more their lifestyle...less snow probably. SSstb18 told SD exactly that..
SD/SS19 don't know that we know.. we are not saying anything until they say something.
SSstb doesn't like BM.. he sees her for what she is..SD struggles with BM being the way she is... and unfortunately for SS19.. he has her brain... and still is emotionally immature because of her.
I used to tell Spawn just
I used to tell Spawn just because somebody is a parent doesn’t mean they are perfect, they are human and sometimes those humans are too flawed to be capable to taking care of anybody else’s needs but their own. Sounds like the same here for your BM, but she didn’t choose drugs, she just chose to be stupid.
She put her wants/needs first
She put her wants/needs first. She's #1 in her book.
They rarely see her now so
They rarely see her now so things won't change much for them. It will just be a longer ride when they do see her. BM here moved off out of state too and SS didn't see her much after that. She did keep in touch though and did come to his graduation. She drove down for his wedding a few years later, even though she was in very poor health. If she cares about her kids at all she'll make the effort. But she's only a few miles away and doesn't make much effort.
She will stay in contact like
She will stay in contact like she does now being few miles away just they will go years now instead a handful of times seeing her now.