Thanksgiving 2009
BM was suppose to take the kids for a little bit but decided the night before that she did not have enough money. What that has to do with taking them to her house to see them on a holiday, I do not know.
So we ended up going to my moms, which was the plan all along. sd14 did not want to go as early as we did, but she did not have choice. We left our house around 1:30.

I just wanted to write very quickly about something that has been bothering me for such a long time... I see these women on magazines, tv, and music, and guys just ohh and ahh at them, because they are gorgeous. Not because their faces are that gorgeous, but mainly their bodies. I am sure that if I walked around in the kind of outfits that these women wear I would have ohh's and ahh's as I walked down the street too. But along with those wouldn't I hear a lot of "sluts," or namecalling?

SS11 had his birthday party on Tuesday, it was a sleepover. SS11 had two of his friends show up extra extra early, one was expected to be early, the other just got dropped off. I told them to play football outside while I got things ready. So- everything seemed good. Decorations up, food, cake ready... and suddenly it got pretty quiet. I couldn't hear the boys outside playing in the yard anymore, so I took a peek. I looked out the windows and finally went outside to see what they were up to.