I am not a step mom, but i really need to know how step parents experience step children.

I have 2 teenager daughters. i don't think they are angels, but they are truely well behaved loveable children.

My husband seems to like/love (not sure) them for a while and the next minute seems to be extremely irritated by them.

There has been many outburst, fights regarding this issue, it goes well for a while and then it starts from scratch again.

When communicating with them it will most of the time be harsh and without feeling.