so i'm justing waiting for the fallout to happen w/ trepidation more for sd than having to deal w/ it myself since i have the option to hang up or walk away but sd doesn't. so bm calls sat morning on our weekend visitation and we just picked them up the day prior not twelve hours earlier and they live 7 minutes from us. i hand the phone to ss and go finish helping sd clean her room when i tell her her mom is on the phone. not knowing ss is headed down the hall and right behind me she says to me "tell her im not here" i inform her i wont lie for her if she doesnt want to talk to her she will have to tell her herself. well she did so, im proud of sd for standing up to her but i know it will be ugly for her when she goes home tonight. ughhh :sick: