Suddenly I am the bad guy and SD12 actually told me last month that im a mutha effing B! Screamed it over and over at me after I had told all 3 kids (my own included) to settle down. This happened the first weekend in May when DH wasn't home. There has been no consequences for this outide of her phone being taken away. Its actually worked out in her favor because now he is spending more time with them and bending over backwards, thinking extra love is the way to help her behavior (and he can't stand the idea of either girls being mad at him).