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Picked up SS - 2 to find him on medication

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Submitted by mesteinway on Wed, 10/28/2009 - 7:19pm

I am enraged at our BM right now. She has a pattern of being a hypochondriac, but this is getting rediculous. Now every time the kids have a sniffle, they go into the doctor and end up on antibiotics. Now, I know the family doctor, because he is my doctor as well. And I know he has a pattern of pretty easily prescribing antibiotics if the patient is insistant. I also know that antibiotics are not harmful for the kiddo, at least short term.

SS is starting to compare homes and work the different houses to his advantage

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Submitted by mesteinway on Tue, 10/27/2009 - 11:07am

So, my 7year old SS takes Karate lessons with a friend of ours. This friend is also a friend of the BM. Well, I recently learned that our SS told her that he feels like a baby at our house. This made me feel very heavy, because really I feel we enforce typical parenting approaches for a 7 year old. Unfortunately at mom's he can pretty much do as he likes. Get food, watch tv, play video games, all on his own schedule. This little 7 year old boy is "man of the house" at his mom's house. (BM lives with sister in law and her two nieces). I hate that the kiddo sees it that way at our house.

BM is holding onto anger, and it is getting old

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Submitted by mesteinway on Mon, 10/26/2009 - 12:06pm

BM is bipolar and has borderline personality. Therefore she has decided that what really went down when my boyfriend broke up with her is that he decided he didn't want to be married anymore and stopped loving her. She has used that to justify her being pissed at the entire world, and is constantly making claims against us that are not true!