Little background, I have been around my sd since she was the age of 2 1/2. Her bm is some piece of work but has gotten a little better over the years. We have always taken my sd when ever we could and pretty much we still can get her when ever we want because frankly her mother could give a rat's behind. Secoundly we have bought this child everything she has ever needed plus payed cs to his ex that in itself is annoying but I cant stand so see her do without because she cant help what her mother is ya know.